Previously, if `loadImpulseResponse` was called before `prepareToPlay`,
the IR wasn't guaranteed to have loaded before the first call to
`processSamples`.

Now, we flush the queue of pending IR-load commands during
`prepareToPlay`, which should ensure that the most recently-loaded IR is
ready to use immediately.

This change affects the PostVista version of the Windows FileChooser.

The default main JuceActivity for JUCE apps calls appNewIntent() in its onNewIntent() implementation which is defined in juce_gui_extra. This commit moves the implementation into juce_gui_basics.

If an aiff file advertied a large number of metadata keys, the
StringPairArray::set calls resulted in quadratic complexity.

We now read keys into a std::map instead, as it enables much faster
lookup, and then convert back to a StringPairArray at the last possible
moment.