This commit removes the various compiler-specific JUCE_DEPRECATED macros and replaces them with C++14's deprecated attribute. It also removes the JUCE_CATCH_DEPRECATED_CODE_MISUSE flag as we can rely on the override specifier catching usage of these old virtual methods, and tidies up the DOXYGEN preprocessor checks as they were inconsistent across the codebase.

Without the BOM, VS assumes UTF-8 strings (subproject file names etc.)
are ansi-encoded.

- Add AlertWindow::show() and showAsync() methods that take a MessageBoxOptions argument
  - Add NativeMessageBox::show() and showAsync() methods that take a MessageBoxOptions argument
  - Update the DialogsDemo to demonstrate the new methods
  - Deprecate AlertWindow::showNativeDialogBox() in favour of the NativeMessageBox methods
  - Pass button strings specified in MesssageBoxOptions to native dialog boxes correctly
  - Use modern TaskDialog on Windows for the native dialog box where available

See BREAKING-CHANGES.txt for more details.

The increased border size should make it slightly less fiddly to tap on
the window border.